Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Benefits of Laughter



Laughter is Fun and Healthy

William Fry, M.D., professor of psychiatry at Stanford University Medical School and expert on health and laughter, reports the average kindergarten student laughs 300 times a day. Yet, adults average just 17 laughs a day. Why the difference? Are we too uptight, too tense? Do we take life too seriously? Isn't it time we learned how to relax? We don't stop laughing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop laughing. So, if we want to fly like the angels and share in their happiness, we'll have to follow their example and take ourselves lightly.

Our five senses are not enough for ideal living. We need to use our sixth sense: our sense of humor. Humor isn't about merely telling jokes; it's the way we view the world. We can be sincere about life without taking it so seriously. We can laugh about our mistakes and pain. Louis Kronenberger explains: "Humor simultaneously wounds and heals, indicts and pardons, diminishes and enlarges; it constitutes inner growth at the expense of outer gain, and those who posses and honestly practice it make themselves more through a willingness to make themselves less."

It is more than six years now since the first "Laughter Club" was set up. There is a growing demand for such clubs in India and abroad. Almost everyday more and more people are joining Laughter Clubs and are reaping its benefits. One of the benefits is that laughter puts the members in a positive frame of mind and gradually makes them positive thinkers. People suffering from a variety of stress-related diseases have benefited in some way or another. But we don’t claim that long-standing ailments have been cured by laughter therapy. Laughter is more of a supplementary and preventive therapy.

Anti Stress: Laughter is one of the finest, most economical and easy ways to reduce stress. Laughter is one of the best muscle relaxants. Laughter expands blood vessels and sends more blood to the extremities and other muscles all over the body. A good bout of laughter also reduces the levels of stress hormones epinephrine and cortisol. It is used as a form of dynamic meditation or relaxation. For meditation one has to put in a concerted effort to completely detach oneself, on mental and emotional levels, from one’s own feelings and thought processes, as well as from the physical world to prevent distractions. While laughing we do not have any conscious thought process and all our senses naturally and effortlessly combine in a moment of harmony to give joy, peace and relaxation. In other types of meditation you need to concentrate a lot to take your mind away from distracting thoughts, which is easier said than done. Therefore, laughter is, if I may say so, the easiest form of meditation and one which brings you instant relaxation.

Strengthens the Immune System: The immune system plays an important role in maintaining good health by keeping away infections, allergies and cancers. It has been proven by psychoneuroimmunologists that negative emotions like anxiety, depression or anger weaken the immune system of the body, thereby reducing its fighting capacity against infections. According to Dr. Lee S. Berk from Loma Linda University, California, laughter helps to increase the count of natural killer cells (NK cells - a type of white cell) and also raises the antibody levels. Researchers have found that after laughter therapy there is an increase in antibodies (Immunoglobulin A) in the mucous of the nose and respiratory passages, which is believed to have a protective capacity against some viruses, bacteria and other micro organisms. Many members of Laughter Clubs have noticed that their frequency of common colds, sore throats and chest infections has decreased. The effect of laughter on the immune system is considered to be very significant with regard to deadly disease like AIDS and cancer by improving quality of life.

Aerobic Exercise: The one benefit almost everybody experiences is a sense of well-being. After 15 minutes of laughter in the morning, they feel fresh throughout the day. There is no medicine like laughter which gives you such an instant result. The reason for the sense of well-being is that you inhale more oxygen while laughing. Laughter can be compared to any aerobic exercises except you don't have to wear fancy shoes or clothes. You don't need to sweat hard on the jogging tracks. According to Dr. William Fry from Stanford University, one minute of laughter is equal to 10 minutes on the rowing machine. Laughter stimulates heart and blood circulation like aerobic exercise. Laughter exercise is suited for sedentary people and those who are confined to a bed or wheelchair.

Depression, anxiety and psychosomatic disorders: The stress and strain of modern life are taking a heavy toll of the human mind and body. Mind-related diseases like anxiety, depression, nervous breakdowns and sleeplessness are on the rise. Laughter has benefited many people who were on heavy anti-depressant pills and tranquillizers. Now they are getting better sleep and their depression has reduced. People with suicidal tendencies have started living with more hope.

High Blood Pressure and Heart disease: There are a number of causes for high blood pressure and heart disease like heredity, obesity, smoking and excessive intake of saturated fats. But stress is one of the major factors. Laughter definitely helps to control blood pressure by reducing the release of stress-related hormones and bringing relaxation.

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How Do you Put Your Garden to Sleep?



Appreciating Simplicity and Fresh Food

Any Foodie, Chef or my favorite Foodie Chef Anthony Bourdain will share that fresh ingredients are a must in any dish, therefore, gardens are a must.

Three simple steps to put your garden to bed in the best way possible for the winter:

1. Cut back any plants that sleep for the winter (which means anything that isn’t green, a shrub, or a tree).

2. Rake around the plants to clear away any the cut off plants, leaves, and other debris.

3. Lay a nice layer of mulch or organic compost around the plants.

Notice Beauty Everyday



See for the first time. Sometimes we get bogged down in schedules and obligations, and we lose our sense of wonder about the simple joys of life. Just quieting yourself internally and opening yourself up to an experience can allow you to view it again for the very first time. When you’re listening to music, imagine that you might have not been born with the ability to hear. When you reach out to touch someone, think about how many people don’t have use of their limbs. When you observe your surroundings, imagine you’re seeing color for the first time.

Live intimately with life. The next time you have a drink of coffee or tea, completely take in the smell and the flavor of the beverage. When you breathe, feel the air enter your lungs. When you walk, really feel the ground beneath your feet. The amount of beauty you experience in life is largely related to your level of intimacy with life. If you’re walking around disconnected, you overlook the wealth of artistry that is available to you right now.

Make your passion a priority. It’s easy to get wrapped up in doing all of the things that we think must get done. Wanting everything to be perfect gets in the way of having time for the things you really care about. While the errands and things on your to-do list might be necessary, it’s important to make the things you love a priority. If you have a hard time with distractions getting in your way, make a specific time during your day that is sacred, where you only do what you really want to do. Maybe it’s an hour of Kung Fu or Yoga in the morning before the rest of the world wakes up. Maybe it’s 30 minutes of Mahjong before you turn in for the night. Whatever it is, you have to make it a priority or it will get lost in the vacuum of the minutiae abyss.

Focus on the good. The reason still puzzles me, but we humans have a tendency to focus on the negative in events, circumstances, and people. We have a tendency to count our misfortunes and all the things that are lacking before we count our blessings. Make a habit of focusing on all the things you’re grateful for and you will open yourself up to experiencing the beauty of life.

Give something away. I’ve found that the best way to reconnect with how beautiful life can be is to give something away. It doesn’t have to be anything material. It can be a compliment, a smile, or a positive intention for someone else. Sometimes the greatest gift you can give is sincerely giving your presence.

Embrace your artistry. If you think you’re not a creative person, I’m here to respectably tell you – you’re wrong. You couldn’t not create, even if you wanted to. Every time you open your mouth, every story you tell yourself about the drama in your life, is an act of creation. You’re constantly shaping, reinventing, and writing the story of your life. Once you recognize this, it’s much more powerful for you to see yourself as an artist, rather than a non-creative person. So the question is: What story will you create today?

Live without limits. Some limits are positive and necessary (like speed limits), but a lot of the limits we place on our lives block us from experiencing our full potential. Arbitrary limits, like fearing to reach out to a homeless person or talk to strangers, restrict the flow of love in our lives.

About the author: Jonathan Mead is a life coach and prolific blogger. In his spare time he studies Jeet Kune Do and other ass-kicking strategies.

7 Secrets of Happy Couples



How Successful Couples Find Happiness- by Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Part of the answer is compatibility - making the initial choice of a partner with whom you share common values. Equally much, however, depends upon the choices each partner chooses to make during the relationship. Here are seven choices made by happy couples:

1. Honoring the other's point-of-view: People disagree, couples disagree. Understanding that the two partners in a couple remain individuals is crucial to a happy relationship. Why would you expect that you and your partner should agree on everything? Honor that one of you is a Republican and the other a Democrat. Honor that one of you is a vegetarian and the other loves a great steak.

2. Open Communication: Tell the truth, tell the whole truth. If you didn't want to share your whole life with your partner, why are you together? If you make a mistake, admit it. If you have doubts, talk about them. Secrets and lies kill a relationship. With truth and openness anything is possible. Even if something is unforgivable, it is better to deal with it quickly.

3.Trust: Suspicion and jealousy are the death knell of any relationship. If the other is going to cheat or otherwise dishonor the relationship, suspicion and jealousy will not prevent it, and such a relationship is fatally flawed in any case. Unwarranted suspicion and jealousy create misery in a surprising number of relationships. If you want to live happily, trust your partner completely. If they dishonor your trust, deal with the situation then. In the meanwhile, you will have been happy.

4. Self-Confidence: Co-dependence is another frequent cause of failed relationships. Happy couples know that they don't need each other. Each partner is a completely whole and valid individual who has entered into a voluntary partnership. Neither "owns" the other, nor "can't live without" the other. Each has their own interests and friends, as well as having mutual interests and friends.

5. Generosity: Greed and selfishness kill relationships. True love is generous in spirit. Mostly, generosity is not about material things, although that is also important. To have a happy relationship, be generous of your time, your love, and your attention.

6. Forgiveness: Resentments and thoughts of revenge and vengeance have no place in a happy relationship. Happy couples forgive each other completely for everything the other has ever done or failed to do - no exceptions.

7. Gratitude: Happy couples are continuously grateful for each other. Every day there are a myriad of reasons to be grateful for your partner. Find those reasons each day, and thank your partner every day.

Secrets of Happy Couples: How Successful Couples Find Happiness is adapted from "secret" #74 of Jonathan's book 100 Secrets for Living a Life You Love.

Learned Optimism




In Learned Optimism, Martin Seligman offers research to show that the main difference between happy, successful people and depressed, unsuccessful folks is how they deal with difficulty. Unhappy people tend to shut down in the face of a problem; happy individuals take action to solve their problems. Optimists also tend not to get mired in blaming themselves for what's wrong as pessimists do; they focus instead on solutions.

If you're not a natural optimist, you still can cultivate the mental attitudes of one-or at least tone down your negative thinking. When you find yourself getting mired in a problem, say to yourself, "I can fix this." Rather than complaining, make a list of ten things you can do to help solve the situation. For example, if you are concerned about money, here's a list of things you can do to generate more: rent a room in your house, baby-sit at night, sell your used books, sell your car, start day trading, have your child become a model, offer to barter instead of paying cash for things, pay your mortgage bimonthly, go to night school and learn a trade, grow plants and vegetables and sell them at the farmer's market. Then look at the list and see what makes the most sense. Try it.

Worry doesn't Help



Worry involves negative habitual thought patterns and negative imagination. We create worry, which often then creates fear. Are you stressed about the ACTUAL EVENT or are you stressed by the constant wishing, hoping, mulling and projecting into the future? Worry is NEGATIVE goal setting.

How high stress impedes thinking
While a certain amount of stress can focus our attention and help us think more efficiently, too much stress interferes with learning and memory. In one experiment, when a group of students thought they were doing a practice test, they performed ten percent better than when they were told that the test was the real one. In this so-called real test, the students believed that they were part of a team that relied on their score to win a cash prize. The added social pressure impeded their working memory.

Quite likely an emotional hijacking caused this to happen. I’m not sure whether Daniel Goleman coined this term, but he uses it often when he reviews, in Emotional Intelligence, the above study and others about the effects of worry and other forms of anxiety.

The hijacking occurs when the part of our brain that specializes in emotions and passion–the small, almond-shaped amygdala in the center–detects a high level of stress. To the amygdala, this is the equivalent of an electronic sign flashing “Life in danger.” It quickly shuts down the slower-acting thinking mind, takes over decision making, and sends emergency messages over a different neural route. These messages trigger a torrent of stress hormones that raise our heart rate and blood pressure and prime our major muscles for action.

This is exactly what we want to happen when we see a small child fall into a rushing river or we’re facing down a mountain lion. Depending on the situation, we want to be catapulted into instinctive action or frozen in protective non-action. This classic fight/flight/freeze reaction is not helpful, however, when we need to come up with smart solutions to the enormously complex and pressing problems we face today.

I don’t want our lawmakers and our captains of industry to fight, flee, or freeze as the global economy worsens, cheap oil runs out, and climate change threatens the natural and human systems on which we rely. Nor do I want my neighbors, co-workers, or loved ones to go into this kind of unthinking panic mode when they need to find a job after being laid off, or sell their house to avoid foreclosure, or figure out fast how to live with water rationing. And I certainly don’t want my brain clouded with stress hormones when I’m in a bind that requires clear thinking.

One thing you can do about it:
The next time you want to think clearly but your heart is racing or your gut is tied in a knot, try this simple, three-part practice:

•Take a deep breath in through your nose and hold it for a moment
•Feel your heartbeat or the sensation in your gut, whichever is stronger
•When you breathe out, send your breath down through the center of your body to your feet and into the earth.
Repeat this until you’ve calmed a bit, then ask yourself: What do I most want to do right now? Be sure to listen for the answer. (It might surprise you.)

By Carolyn Shaffer